COMPLIMENTS

Some people notice the BEAUTIFUL view.
Some people notice only the DIRTY window!
 
Your happiness depends on what you DECIDE to notice.
 
So here's today's exercise: 
Step 1: Look for ONE QUALITY in every person you meet.
Step 2: Give them a COMPLIMENT ...
 
"That is a stunning outfit!"
"You are an inspiring teacher."
"You have a beautiful smile!"
 
Remember, a compliment is NOT flattery! 
Flattery is insincere. 
A compliment is SINCERE RECOGNITION of someone's qualities.
 
Most people feel UNDER-APPRECIATED! 
When you give them compliments, you light up their day.
 
And here's the bonus:
 
To pay compliments, you have to focus on the positive.
So it makes YOU happier!
 
 
Extract from Andrew Matthews's article
 
Andrew Matthews is a bestselling author and international corporate speaker. His books are published in 31 languages.